Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Buy the Book – Single but Dating

Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

“This is the book I wanted five years ago and
the book modern single women need – Nikki xxx”

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Should I stop flying airlines who don’t support marriage equality?

Recently Margaret Court said she would stop flying on Qantas due to it’s support of marriage equality. Everyone has a choice and has the right to make a choice, but this is not a choice, this is using her status and the media to bully an airline based on her own opinion. So what if one person does not want to fly Qantas. I’m sure Qantas doesn’t mind, there are plenty of people who still do. Shouldn’t we be basing our decisions of who to fly with based on performance and service not, political views? I know people who don’t support various brands and businesses for various reasons. I also know people who don’t exactly support marriage equality and that is their choice, but they don’t try and enforce others to think the same. But why dose Margaret have to come out with this in the West Australian Newspaper? It’s…

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‘Single But Dating’ Excerpt: Mindful Dating

This is an excerpt from the book ‘Single But Dating’ The question is how would your life be transformed if you chose to love this time for once with all your intelligence? —Cheryl Strayed Too many times very early in the process of getting to know someone, I would start to consider crazy and impossible-to-tell things like whether a person was right to be in an official relationship with, whether I saw a future with them, if I could marry them or have children with them, what my parents would think and so on. I didn’t end up enjoying their company and I wasn’t even able to get to know them because I was too busy imagining the hypothetical future. If you are like me, then this is a habit that you need to break ASAP. Learning how to just date a guy without wondering from the get-go about a…

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Want to meet a man? Get a dog!

Today/yesterday after waking up feeling exhausted with jet lag, it was time to get my body and mind going, which meant one thing – go for a hike. My friend suggested I take her dog Daisy and overcome my fear of picking up dog poo (there is just something about the texture that freaks me out). If you have never hiked Runyon before, it’s full of attractive people with dogs, especially topless men and this day was no exception. I’m not a perve, only human. How can you not have a glance when these glistening toned bodies walk past? Now, as a relationship and dating expert, so many people complain to me about where to meet men. Yes we have apps these days, but for some that feels nearly unromantic or exhausting having to scroll through so many options and they are looking for an old fashioned meet and greet….

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I wish somebody told me how hard chasing your dreams can be

They say you should chase your dreams but no one warns you how hard chasing your dreams can be. They say you can do anything, but forget to tell you that anything comes with a lot of crap too. I have just landed in LA for what feels like my thousandth time to launch my book ‘Single But Dating.’ But this didn’t happen overnight, in fact this has probably been the past 5 years in the making. I always knew I wanted to write a book, what I didn’t realise is how much I would love writing this book. Not just for the process but what you are able to bring into other’s lives. In this online world, there is something so beautiful about the printed word and something that can’t be destroyed by a virus or lost password. When I first wrote ‘Single But Dating’, I was fulfilling a…

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