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Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

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How to protect your relationship during peak infidelity season

Sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein explains why cheating is rife at this time of the year – and what you can do now to safeguard your relationship. This might sound a little scary as the festive season is a time of loving and family, but it’s also a time where factors can align to work against you in your relationship. Why infidelity might be the highest during this time could come down to stress + lack of time + opportunity. These three things exist in most relationships and during many other times, but if you have been facing issues throughout the year, these could tip your relationship over the edge as the holiday period approaches. When there are issues in a relationship, it would seem simple to just address them, but there are often also so many other things going on in life. Financial stress, work stress, family stress combined with…

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A sexologist reveals the 6 things to make or break your relationship over summer

One of them is pictured – can you guess? Have you ever found your relationship suffering over the festive season and wondered why? Isn’t this supposed to be a time of joy? There are various factors that might be playing havoc with your love life that you need to consider before you hit the silly season. 1. Alcohol A few drinks can help you get into the mood and assist you to relax, but let’s face it, who stops at just a few over the festive season? Alcohol can have a negative impact on the best of days, but add in a pinch of stress and chaos and it’s a recipe for fire. Before you have a boozy night out, consider first where your relationship is at. If there’s already tension, you might want to stop after a few, otherwise things could be said that cannot be taken back. While letting your…

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How To Ask Someone Out In Real Life

Dating apps have given us an opportunity to meet people we might never cross paths with In Real Life (IRL). Apps such as Tinder, Bumble, Grindr and Happn offer a smorgasbord of men and women of all ages and sexual predilections, which means landing a date has, in theory, never been easier. Indeed, the latest YouGov research indicates just how much we have embraced online dating — 35 percent of Australians have used online dating or dating apps. But has the rise of dating online and on apps making us less capable of finding love offline? Less skilled in the art of simply striking up a conversation with our fellow humans and seeing where it leads? Less articulate when it comes to asking that cute guy or girl in the gym out on a date in person? “We are actually communicating more, but we’re not putting our old fashioned communication skills into…

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There’s a reason this month’s number one relationship podcast has experienced such unbridled popularity. Alone: A Love Story is like a heart-wrenching, Eat Pray Love-esque audio memoir. The events and the relationship we become swept up in are anything but fiction; an intimate dissection of the love story of Michelle Parise and her now ex-husband. It’s a story about love and betrayal, and that perilous place in between. It’s confronting – not just because we hear the gravelly reality of having your heart splintered by the man you trusted most, but because Parise does nothing to conceal how she coped with her ex-husband’s affair. The many bottles of alcohol she drank, the uncontrollable crying, the rage, the sleeping pills, the comfort she found in having a man’s body rest on top of her own. Sometimes, these bodies were unfamiliar ones – ones she gravitated towards in bars late at night, when…

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