Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

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Why I’m Attending A Porn Conference?

Why the AVNs? ( A big porn conference in Vegas). I have always been fascinated by the porn world, the industry that is. Over the years, starting off in my early career working at Sexpo, I have the privilege of getting to know some of the industry’s biggest names. But I was pleasantly surprised by what I got to see. I remember writing my first piece on porn stars and it was titled, “porn stars are people too.” I think we all have this idea and stereotype of what a porn star should be. But with the exception of a few, mostly they are normal average people who are in touch with their sexuality. (Please note, I hate using the world normal in sentences like this as what is normal anyway? But for the purpose of trying to prove my point in regards to porn stars and how many people…

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Shopping Diet #1 – F*ck Sales

I, like most women love a good bargain. When I purchase something that is 70% off, I feel as though I’m saving myself money because of course I will need that thing one day. Or I am persuaded into buying something that I probably don’t need but my reasoning is it’s on sale, why not.” I would love to calculate the money I have spent on those moments where something was purchased because it was cheap. Put a few of those together and… My confessions: I seriously love a bargain. It’s nearly like a game to me. Do you know how hard it is for someone who loves a bargain to walk near shops all with signs saying sale or even worse as in the case of Myer, an additional 25% off the markdown price? ( good one Myer). It’s torture. It’s like someone waving a chocolate bar in your…

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Is it time to go on a shopping diet?

I’m going on a diet but it’s not focused on food. I have always been an emotional shopper but I feel things have recently gotten out of control. I want to focus my emotions more on non-material things in life. I feel these days we can all get caught up in this world of what everyone has, what we need and how we can flaunt ourselves to the world. But I want to focus more on just being happy with what I have right now and where I am in life and believe it or not shopping is a part of that. Why can’t I feel good in an outfit I’ve worn a million times before? If it looks good does it matter? Why do I have to follow a trend? I just want to be able to be happy just as me and I need to give my emotions…

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Six Ways you can Spice up your Sex Life in 2018, revealed by a Sexologist

With 2018 on the horizon, many are taking stock and planning lifestyle changes for the New Year. And although it may not receive a mention around the family dinner table, spicing things up in the bedroom is set to make the list for some. Here to tell you how is sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein from the Sex and Life podcast, who has revealed to FEMAIL her six top tips to help your sex life in 2018. 1. RESOLVE CONFLICT Before working on anything in the bedroom with your partner, harmony needs to be achieved outside of it, Dr Goldstein said. She added: ‘If you are stuck on issues, you’re not going to want to work on things in the bedroom. ‘If we go with the theory that the brain is the biggest sexual organ – which I believe is true, especially for woman – holding onto a grudge or feelings of resentment because…

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