Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Dr Nikki is
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Buy the Book – Single but Dating

Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

“This is the book I wanted five years ago and
the book modern single women need – Nikki xxx”

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Apr
24

2017

Sophie Monk being announced as the new Bachelorette at first brought confusion and then excitement over the thought of watching the blonde bombshell tell her male suitors exactly how it is (I love her honesty). I think we all assumed that the next woman ready to find love would be the Bachelor’s reject from last season Nikki (what a great name too), as it follows the patter of how the one to give out roses is usually done. But putting a celebrity in the mix seems to break all the rules. It makes sense though. Not only for its viewing capabilities, but because for a celebrity it’s even harder to find love. I have worked in media for the past seven years and known a good share of celebrities who struggle in this department. Most looking from the outside in would assume that it’s a life full of freebies, parties…

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Apr
21

2017
Bravo Calvin Klein

Yesterday I posted about Victoria’s Secret Sexy list and what it means to be sexy. I established that everyone can be sexy, a term which is so overused these days. But the problem with Victoria’s Secret is that their list consisted of a particular type of look in order to be sexy, portraying that message to many that you have to be a particular type to gain that label. I was thrilled today to see the new Calvin Klein underwear campaign featuring 73 year old actress, Lauren Hutton. We never used to see woman past a particular age as being sexy but we didn’t see woman past a particular dress size either. Now both of these are openly and commonly occurring. But the only way they can make progress with this is when someone steps up and makes that example, that anyone and everyone can be sexy. It’s about diversity…

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Apr
20

2017
I don’t think I want children but my partner keeps telling me I should consider freezing my eggs.

I don’t think I want children but my partner keeps telling me I should consider freezing my eggs. He has children from a previous relationship and doesn’t mind if we don’t have any more but is concerned I will one day change my mind. I’m not sure what to do? The key words here and that you don’t ‘think’ you want children. So, there is still a part of you that might? You don’t want to rush into something like this if you are unsure but time might be against you. There is never really the perfect time to have a baby, however not being sure if you want one in the first place is something you should resolve before you do. Freezing your eggs is a good idea if you do one day change your mind. You can’t go back on this decision later down the track if you…

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Apr
20

2017
I’ve just broken up with this guy and feeling down about being single again.

I’ve just broken up with this guy and feeling down about being single again. My friends are telling me to be positive but I’m struggling. It’s not so much that I’m missing him more that I’m not feeling great about being single again. How do I shift my mind? It can be normal to feel this way when breaking up with someone but give yourself some credit. You could have been one of those people that stays in an unhealthy relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. We all like to feel needed and wanted but being single is also not the end of the world. Think about all the things that you couldn’t do when you were with your partner. Or make a list of future things you think you can’t do when in a relationship. These might be really small things like hog the bed, have…

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