Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Buy the Book – Single but Dating

Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

“This is the book I wanted five years ago and
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Mar
23

2017
Fans rage at Married at First Sight twins: ‘The quest for fame is shameless!’

The twins from Channel Nine’s reality series, Married at First Sight, copped a slashing on social media for their heart felt deliveries to their husbands of 8 weeks. For Michelle, it was not necessarily goodbye to Jesse but a transference to the friend zone. For Shannon, a warning before yes. But even with these honest and nice gestures, social media went into meltdown, criticising the blonde twins. It seems the online trolls have been out in force this week, first with the backlash for Melissa George and her pleas after experiencing domestic violence and now attractive twins who put their necks on the line and faces on TV to find love. Are we being a bit too harsh? The question was raised did Michelle string Jesse along to get more face time on TV? It was evident in the beginning that sparks weren’t exactly flying but this is an experiment…

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Mar
22

2017
Should you say something if he farts in front of you?

Passing gas is natural and bound to happen. If the relationship is just new, each of you might be holding it in or trying to hide it when it appears. However, eventually this behaviour can’t be hidden and nor should it have to be. I’m not suggesting to sit there letting them rip in front of each other, but if it happens don’t feel awkward or ashamed. If he is the one to break the relationship farting virginity first, don’t ignore it. Ignoring it could make the situation very awaked and send the message that you feel uncomfortable with farts. Humour is always the best way to address situations like these. You could smile and make a joke about it or even say something witty like “babe happy to know our relationship is already at that comfortable point” But don’t let noise in front of each other go with nothing…

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Mar
22

2017
I met a guy online and after a few dates I found out he once dated a friend of mine. What should i do?

If you like him, you should continue dating him. Recycle dating (where we date someone who is an ex of someone we know or are friends with) is common these days thanks to the speed at which we are seeing and dating different people. It’s bound to happen especially if you are dating in the same area as your friends. It will depend on how serious your date and your friend were and how close your friendship is. If they just dated, then you might not need to initially say anything at all. You need to make up your own mind about him without judgments from others before you open up those gates. Your friend might say things that happened between them or negative things that could sway your mind and be based on her opinions not yours. If you do have a close friendship, then you might want to…

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Mar
22

2017
My partner wants to watch porn but I’m not sure. Are there any good DVD’s for someone who is a beginner?

Be very careful with introducing porn into your relationship. It can be a lot of fun but if you are not sure it can also cause issues. The biggest problem with watching porn in a relationship is that your focus or one person’s focus can turn from their partner to the TV. However, done right it can also be a great turn on. Talk to your partner about your concerns with watching porn. It’s vital to discuss boundaries but also to explore where turns ons might be. This is not about recommending a specific dvd but looking a particular genres of porn. My advice would be to start soft. Something that is more romantic and intimate rather than kinky and out there. You might also want to try a more humours approach and watch a porn parody ( a porn take off of a movie or TV series). Watch this…

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