Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Buy the Book – #Singlebutdating

Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

“This is the book I wanted five years ago and
the book modern single women need – Nikki xxx”

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For years I was always told I needed to write a book, but for me if I was going to put pen to paper (or these days fingers to keys) I wanted it to be not only a book, but something that was needed and that people could learn from. #singlebutdating for me is not just your general dating book telling you when you should call a guy back or what his messages mean. This is a way to make healthier choices in your life, mainly in the area of love, sex and relationships in order to live a life that is not only one that was meant for you but one that makes you fulfilled and happy. No one teaches you how to be in a relationship or how to date with most of us entering this part of our lives blindly, working it out along the way. But…

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Why Should Single Women Be Happy That Ashley Madison Exists?

The Ashley Madison hacking scandal (with users details and sexual fantasies threatened to be exposed) has been all over the media lately. Some people are fearful of what information might come from this and others believe karma for those cheating on their partners. But the discussions keep coming – why do people cheat and is this site a good idea? The more alarming information is that in Australia, the website is said to have over 900 000 users (a measurement from two years prior). This, in my opinion is our best indication of rates of infidelity or the desires of Aussies to be unfaithful. When I see other studies attempting to predict how many people are having an affair, I question the validity and the percentage of false reporting by these participants. Who would admit to having an affair if they didn’t have to? Not all of the users on…

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The Rise of Sex Content. A liberal or smutty move?

I was recently asked where I thought, as a society, we were positioned when it came to sexual liberation. I can never give a simple response to that question. One might browse our current media, such as films and Instagram accounts, and conclude that we are rather liberal. But to me, when it comes to sex, it seems that what would appear as sexual liberation is, in fact, tipping the scales towards harmful smut. The Fifty Shades effect is not just one where rope sales and requests for bondage run high. Just like with the book and the media coverage that followed, the release of the movie has provided a reminder of just how well sex sells and how appealing it seems. It didn’t even need to be an Oscar-winning film, simply boasting 20 minutes of sex was enough to send opening ticket sales sky high. There is also a…

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Would you open up your marriage to save it?

“Would you open up your marriage for a year to save it?” You may have heard this question being asked in the media lately. The quandary is trending thanks to author Robin Rinaldi’s new book The Wild Oats Project, which explores how she opened up her marriage in a bid to fight sexual boredom. Rinaldi’s plan was hatched after her husband of 17 years underwent a vasectomy. “I refuse to go to my grave with no children and only four lovers,” she said, “If I can’t have one, I must have the other.” The rules were set: they were not to sleep with mutual friends, get into serious relationships, or have unprotected sex. The pair lived apart during the week and on the weekends Rinaldi would return home. Seems simple enough, doesn’t it? The arrangement didn’t save their marriage. Instead, Rinaldi fell in love with one of her lovers. But…

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