Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Buy the Book – Single but Dating

Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. It’s important to challenge the ideals that surround you to become the most dateable version of you and to make the best decision for yourself, enjoying this single but dating life along the way. We now have the right to live the life men have been doing for years, we just need a little help and advice to work out how to do it our way.

“This is the book I wanted five years ago and
the book modern single women need – Nikki xxx”

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I wish somebody told me how hard chasing your dreams can be

They say you should chase your dreams but no one warns you how hard chasing your dreams can be. They say you can do anything, but forget to tell you that anything comes with a lot of crap too. I have just landed in LA for what feels like my thousandth time to launch my book ‘Single But Dating.’ But this didn’t happen overnight, in fact this has probably been the past 5 years in the making. I always knew I wanted to write a book, what I didn’t realise is how much I would love writing this book. Not just for the process but what you are able to bring into other’s lives. In this online world, there is something so beautiful about the printed word and something that can’t be destroyed by a virus or lost password. When I first wrote ‘Single But Dating’, I was fulfilling a…

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How to get the spark back in your relationship

I had the privilege of being a guest on the show, The Last Resort, where couples are given a month to decide if they will stay together or not. Whilst heading to an Island to talk about my fave subject sex, which is not such a bad gig, what I loved the most was that the issues we were dealing with were very much a representation of what so many couples experience. And it has to do with one important word – intimacy. When it comes to trying to spice things up, people often turn to the type of sex they are having, how many times they are having it and if orgasms are present. But does it mean if these things are solved that the spice and even satisfaction is what couples will achieve? What I noticed in my short but sweet time with the contestants on this show…

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Mother’s Day: a day to celebrate that woman called Mum or a day once again to spend cash on a celebration?

If you have walked around the shops lately or turned on the TV, you would aware of the commercialisation of Mother’s Day. Brands and shops have it all planned out for you. There is a deal on certain products and ways to celebrate being flaunted. But do they really care about Mum or the people that will spend the money because of this day? What does Mother’s Day mean to me? This year things weree put into perspective. Not only am I with my Mum to celebrate this day, but I haven’t left her side (except to sleep) since she came out of surgery a few days ago. She is fine, just something routine but painful and has needed me for help and support. To me this is what Mother’s Day is all about, being there for the woman in my life called Mum. I have purchased her presents and…

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If a man is straight but experiments with another man once before in this life, does that make him gay or even bi sexual? I’m dating a guy who has and I’m wondering if I should be questioning his sexuality? Let me ask you a similar question in reverse to help you answer this. If a woman experiments once in her life with another woman does that make her gay or bi sexual? We are a society that eroticises two women being together, but any affection or even a look from one man to another, and they are labelled gay. Most of us have wondered what it was like to be with someone of the same sex whether we want to admit it or not. It’s only natural to be curious about what is out there and what experiences can be had, especially in today’s hypersexual culture. Unfortunately for men…

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