Apr
27

2017
I’m over hearing about Karl Stefanovic’s new romance

Frankly, I’m over hearing about Karl Stefanovic’s new romance and the heartache of his ex. In the space of a few moments, I read one article about Karl and his new girlfriend Jasmine passionately kissing at LAX and then another about his ex, referring to an influx of photos of them as, “Like she’d been kicked in the guts”. These articles seem to play on the idea that Karl is off having a good time with his new and much younger girlfriend (we are talking about 11 years, not 20 or 30), and Cass is sitting at home dealing with children and having a hard time whilst suffering the push of this new romance. But there is so much information left out. His trip with his new love was for a week and we don’t know how much time back home he has with his kids. We only see photos…

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Apr
27

2017
If you are a woman, why do you wear makeup?

If you are a woman, why do you wear makeup? I can’t explain why I do without saying “to look better or feel better” as a reason and I’m slightly ashamed of that. It’s this dilemma many women are in. We want to promote self-love and acceptance and to flaunt exactly who we are, but many of us who utter those words will also engaged in activities to enhance or modify our looks. But it’s nearly feels impossible not to. A recent study has come out saying that men prefer woman with less makeup. When I first spoke about this study on Facebook, I was concentrating more on the debate of makeup or no makeup but what I didn’t emphasise at the time was the word “less.” It was no so much that no makeup was the preferred. So maybe I shouldn’t feel so bad for being a woman who…

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Apr
25

2017
My partner wants us to watch more porn together

My partner wants us to watch more porn together. I used to enjoy watching it on my own but I found when we turned it on together it didn’t have the same results. Instead of feeling turned on by it I felt disconnected from my partner because he was just looking at the screen so much and not into my eyes (something that always got me going). I want to be able to enjoy porn again but how do I balance my relationship within our porn watching. This is something many couples don’t think about when watching porn in a relationship. We so often talk about the potentially negative roll modelling of porn or if someone is watching it too much but because so many commonly see this as a solo sport, there is not as much discussion out there about how to do this effectively in a relationship. For…

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Apr
25

2017
I have been dating for a while now but feel like it’s the same scenario over and over again

I have been dating for a while now but feel like it’s the same scenario over and over again. I have not met anyone in a while that I like and I’m over flipping through dating sites. How do I get my dating mojo back again? Sounds to me like you need a bit of a break from dating. Sometimes it can be exhausting and if you have been feeling a bit disappointed, then you could be going out into the dating world with an already negative view. Think of this like resetting the dating clock. You need to take some time off to give your negative mind time to disappear and go back out there with a clear and open minded view. Is there an activity can you can try? Can you start a new hobby or challenge? Something to take your mind of things but also help bring…

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