Apr
13

2018
Ask Dr. Nikki- “Why is it awkward when I try to talk dirty”?

“Why is it awkward when I try to talk dirty”? Let’s start off by saying that feeling a bit awkward when talking dirty is completely normal. But it is  good to go outside your comfort zone from time to time, and it can be exciting to try something new. Talking dirty is a great way to introduce something new and different in the bedroom and even take on a different role, but once you get over those awaked moves and statements. If it does feel awkward, let the other person know so you can have a laugh and joke about it instead of feeling uncomfortable not sounding like a professional phone sex operator. Make it fun and have a giggle and remember the awkwardness will pass. It’s not exactly a subject we are taught at school, but like everything else, practice makes perfect… so get talking… or get dirty talking….

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Apr
12

2018
Man UP

Recently I went to watch my cousin in a boxing match. He had enrolled into a 10-week challenge called “how to be a man”. I noticed that throughout the match, the organiser kept referring to the phrase “how to be a man” and at one stage even encouraged other guys who “want to be a man” to give the program a go and get into the ring. If I wasn’t wearing a short skirt that would have guaranteed a flash to the crowd, I would have got in there too! It really got me thinking about the words “be a man” and the backward gender stereotypes and pressure we put on men today. Besides certain genitalia and those don’t even have to be present these days, who gets to decide what traits are “manly”? Recently, a good friend of mine was telling me about an incident that happened at a…

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Apr
10

2018
The Art of Divorce

Celebrities and divorce. A statement that goes hand in hand these days. Recently one celebrity decided to take things one step further and held an auction for his pre-loved items. It was called “the art of divorce” Russell Crowe’s extravagant auction was held on Saturday night. It marked his 54th birthday and coincidently, his wedding anniversary. I along with many others sat in Sydney’s Carriage works, intrigued to see the unwanted items and what their eventual sale price would be. The auction was full of Crowe memorabilia, including items from Danielle Spencers jewellery collection, movie props including a pair of cherry red Doc Martins worn by Crowe in Romper Stomper that sold for $10,000 and a chariot that is rumoured to have received interest from Ed Sheeran! Sales from the auction are expected to exceed $4million, with Crowe still receiving offers after the final hammer went down. Besides the jewellery,…

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Apr
05

2018
I’m calling BS on celeb split announcements

Original published in news.com WITH the news of Channing and Jenna splitting after nearly nine years of marriage, romantics all over the world have been left doubting the possibility of that precious promise, “til death do us part”. But after reading yet another romantic and positive split statement from a happy, separating couple, it’s time to call BS on this Hollywood trend of the romantic divorce. Channing and Jenna have chosen to “lovingly separate as a couple” with “nothing changed about how much we love one another” and they are just “two best friends realising it’s time to take some space and help each other live the most joyous fulfilling lives as possible”. So why divorce? If you really love each other, surely you can work it out? Channing Tatum and Jenna Dewan didn’t wake up one morning and suddenly decide to lovingly separate. I know love isn’t always enough,…

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