Jun
27

2017
Should You Be Friends With Your Partner On Social Media?

We’ve all heard of the ‘should you be friends with your ex on social media’ debate. It’s a risky decision — there might be photos of a new flame, posts about single life or the dreaded relationship status change. But what we don’t hear that much about is whether or not it’s a good idea to befriend your current other half in the digital world. You might think — why not? Afterall, social media is a part of everyday life. But it turns out there’s a split debate and it may be worth thinking twice before accepting a friend request from your significant other. According to Dr Nikki Goldstein, sexologist, relationship expert and author of Single But Dating, it takes time for a sense of security to develop, which means if you’re new into a relationship, avoid merging your virtual worlds. “If it’s a new relationship, you need to get…

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Jun
27

2017
This Is When You Should Start Having Sex With The Person You’re Dating

I never know when to have sex with the person I’m going out with. Well, obviously, I should have sex whenever I want to. Two (or three or four or five) consenting adults should have sex whenever they would like. But there are all these rules that confuse me. Don’t have sex on the first date, because no one will buy the cow if they can get the milk for free (women are cows, apparently). Wait until the third date — yeah, the third date is definitely the right time to have sex! Actually, wait until you’re monogamous. Wait, no,  just wait until you’re married! To settle the question once and for all (although, is there any one-size-fits-all answer, really?), I asked Dr. Nikki Goldstein, expert sexologist and author of Single But Dating: A Field Guide to Dating in the Digital Age, about when you should start having sex with…

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Jun
27

2017
The Ultimate Empowering Sex Bucket List For Women

How many times have you put someone else’s pleasure before yours? And how many times have you taken the reins and made sure you were also taken care of? Ladies, you should never be afraid to take the lead and make yourself the focal point in bed, which is why we’ve put together an empowering sex bucket list to tackle immediately. When I spoke with sexologist Dr. Nikki Goldstein about where to begin, she said that it should be “based on things that you truly want to try and not things that you think you should.” We won’t feel fulfilled in our relationships with others or with ourselves if we listen to outside expectations more than our own needs. And while the list ahead isn’t a one-size-fits-all kind of deal, it is a fun starting point to finding out how you can own your sexuality and ways you can be…

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Jun
26

2017
Getting Technosexually Savvy

We help a listener who doesn’t want to have kids figure out how to confess this news to her new boyfriend. We also discuss the 13 places all adventurous couples should have sex and whether watching relationships on reality shows are good or bad for us. Sexologist and author of the book Single But Dating. Drn Nikki Goldstein, returns to the podcast! Click here to View in iTunes

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