Feb
10

2012
Would You Abstain From Sex For A Teddy Bear?

First it was the ring, then it was the pledge, and then it was the ball with the big white dress, now a teddy bear! I think by now if you have read anything I’ve written, you know where I stand on the concept of brainwashing our youth into thinking sex before marriage is wrong, shameful or dirty. I once again would like to reiterate that if this is your choice (by choice I mean not influenced and pressured by religion, family, or culture) and you have an adequate education on the subject, I support that choice. But unfortunately, I feel that many young people are brainwashed into making this decision.   To make matters worse (and even worse for Roses Only and Hallmark) some young people this year will be replacing Valentine’s Day with Purity Day. Talk about spoiling the romance! (Although honestly, I’m not big on the romance…

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Feb
09

2012
The New Mating Call – Cock Shots!

This post is to all the men out there who have ever sent me a photo of their penis! News flash – it doesn’t work and really does nothing for me.  Sure it’s a great way when you are in a relationship or just starting dating to kick things up a notch, but when a random person or someone you hardly know sends that phallic picture, what is it really supposed to do?   I am going to be joining a campaign soon and I will have to give up a form of social networking. Due to my facebook and twitter addition (follow me on FB at Dr Nikki Goldstein or Twitter on @Dr_NikkiG) I was encouraged to start a blendr addiction so I had something to give up. You know that website that is like grinder, and if you don’t know what grindr is then you have been living…

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Feb
08

2012
How Good Are Your Orgasms?

We live in a society where we are constantly trying to improve our sex lives, we want more, we want it longer, harder, faster, softer, more adventurous or more spontaneous or just all the time. It seems we get fed messages when it comes to our skills in the sack, we could do better! But how do we define “good sex”? Is it the length it goes for, how many orgasms you have or if you have any orgasm at all.   So when it also comes to orgasms, how can we tell if one is better than the other? I was reading a book, which gave descriptions from some people about their orgasms. Some I identified with, some I did not. On later research I discovered that there was not just one type of orgasm but many: mini orgasms, maxi orgasms, quickie orgasms, explosive orgasms, multiple orgasms, dry, non-ejaculatory…

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