Jan
23

2012
Shit People Say To Sexologists

Being a Sexologist is not the easiest job sometimes. It is not a common profession and not one presented to you at high school as a possible career. So telling people what I do for a living comes with some interesting thoughts, beliefs and questions by others. People think you are a prostitute, think you must have a lot of sex, think that you got into this profession because you liked sex so much, wonder what your family thinks, ask you questions and confess their inner most sexual thoughts and experiences ( that one I love!).   As it is not a profession well understood, it really is a matter of one’s own personal belifes and sometimes lack of information on the subject that shine through in their questions and statements. I enourage the quetsions, I even enoaurveg the statments and confessions, as long as their are respestufl of my…

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Jan
20

2012
Best Wedding Proposal Ever

I was told about this video last week and have been looking for it ever since!   You might remember a little while ago, I posted a proposal gone wrong from the Ellen Show. Well this time I thought I would post a video of someone who definitely got it right. Maybe I love this because I’m a hopeless romantic and love surprises ( hint hint) or the fact that her name is Nikki or that I love a good flash mob.   I don’t want to give too much away, but make sure you watch this right until the end. I say, if you are going to do it, do it right and just do it  then and there! Now this is what I call a proposal!     Happy Watching   Dr NikkiG   [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJWlavnM6b0[/youtube]

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Jan
19

2012
The Sexy Side To Febfast

When I got asked to be an ambassador for this year’s febfast, I wondered why on earth they wanted a Sexologist and Relationship Expert to promote their cause. Then I started to think about how drinking had impact on my own experiences…   Looking back, there have been times where alcohol-induced confidence encouraged me towards the wrong man at the wrong time. There have also been times where my confidence was so low that my aim was to boost it with the bottle.  I can tell you from first-hand experience that confidence from Cosmos does not last forever and eventually rubs off (often when the sun starts to rise). Maybe having a Sexologist on board isn’t such a bad idea after all!   What do I think about drinking and sex? Well, it’s never a good mix – regardless of how many cocktails and shots refer to sex. One or…

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