Feb
21
2012

No Teen Sex Abroad!

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No Teen Sex Abroad!

Sometimes being a sexologist is difficult, especially when you have different opinions to those close to you. Even more so when these opinions are about young adults and sex. We live in a society where we try and prolong the age at which teens first have sex and want our sons and daughters to wait till they are “ready” (and past the age of 16). We see young adults engaging in sexual practices sometimes as a bad thing and this is where we do so much damage to their thoughts about sex. This is when we attach the shame and guilt. When will people learn – sex is not such a bad thing!   It is a bad thing however, when teens are sexually involved for the wrong reasons, and also without the right knowledge of how to protect themselves both physically and emotionally. This is something I will always…

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Feb
20
2012

How To Modify Your Penis!

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How To Modify Your Penis!

There will always be the debate of a man’s penis! Size, colour, bent, cut or uncut. What is perfect? What is normal? And what do women really want?   While we can continue to quarrel over helmet versus sock, there are also a few other ways a penis can be modified. Whether it should be, is the next question.  Now everything I tell you has a point. I’m not yet sure what the point of telling you this is, besides some fun and entertaining facts, but lets hope I don’t start a trend with this information otherwise the women out there could be getting a two eyed snaked instead of one! (Aren’t those things complicated enough?).   Bihari –This ancient Chinese practice involved the cutting of the supporting ligaments above the penis, causing the penis to drop forward, giving the illusion of one’s dim sums being endowed with an extra…

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Feb
15
2012

Magda – Gay Or Pansexual?

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Magda – Gay Or Pansexual?

So last night Magda Szubanski came out as gay on The Project whilst publically sending her support for gay marriage.  I’m sure you all read about it and have seen or heard someone talking about it by now. I support her choice to do this and her timing was fantastic. On a day when we were all focused on love and romance, there was no better time to stress the point that we should all have the same rights to love in the same way.   After thinking about this for a while, what is confusing to me was her terminology and maybe even her understanding of the full extent of human sexuality. The panel and audience all laughed at the time, but when she uttered the words “ I’m  gay gay gay gay gay and then a little bit not gay and then gay gay gay gay ,” I…

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Feb
14
2012

Did You Forget About Valentine's Day?

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Did You Forget About Valentine's Day?

This article was inspired by my local deli. Apparently last year on Valentine’s Day, a man stormed in and asked for a chocolate decoration that had been hanging up in the shop for weeks to be cut down so he could give it to his girlfriend. How romantic?   If you are one of those poor schmucks that forgot to get the obligatory red roses and chocolates or feel your present is just not good enough – here are five last minute tips to redeem yourself. (And not have to cut down old objects hanging the window of shops).   1. Your time   I always think the most generous gift you can give someone is your time. It lets them know they are important enough in your life. If you forgot to make plans or buy a token of your love, be spontaneous, grab a picnic basket or make…

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