Jan
13

2012
Why Slut Shaming Is Wrong ( by a 13 year old girl)

This you tube video was passed around yesterday and considering I just posted an article about women feeling bad at the prospect of sleeping with many men, I felt it was appropriate to share it with you.   I am also amazed and impressed that these words are uttered by a 13 year old girl! If only more 13 year olds could think like her, actually if more people in general could think like her, the world would be a better place.   She might not have a doctorate in Human Sexuality, the right to vote, drive, drink, or has even finished school but this 13 year old girl has a valid point and a maturity I would expect to find or would hope to find in an adult.  You don’t have to be a sexologist to educate people, just an open mind and the courage to voice your opinion!  …

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Jan
12

2012
How Many is Too Many?

My friend messaged me the other day in a desperate state! She had watched that movie where a woman sleeps with 19 guys and decides 20 is the one she should marry or something like that. I can’t remember the name or the details but I do remember how upset my friend was after watching it. So my friend decides to make a list of all the men she’s slept with and then becomes upset over it. I’m furious! Not that she has slept with many men but that she’s upset about it. (And no “ my friend” is not a code for myself, I’m proud of everyone I slept with, well nearly everyone, lol)   Being a sexologist, at times we are required to take a sex history. It is very useful in putting the pieces of someone sex life together. But on another level I am against people…

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Jan
09

2012
From Sex to Cancer

Normally this is a place for me to share information about topics to do with love, sex and relationships. One of those topics I love to share is about loving yourself first, it is the key to happiness and the key to a successful love and sex life! But with loving yourself comes looking after yourself! I don’t think we take enough time to focus on ourself and also seem to self sabotage. Your body really is your temple!   A friend posted this link on FB and it really touched me.   At the end of the video they say ” send this to a 16 year old you know” Now I’m not sure if many 16 year olds read my blog ( or even if they should) but I think this is relevant to us all!   We think a tan is sexy but what is sexier is…

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Jan
05

2012
Foetal Masturbation?

Masturbation is one of those hot sticky (you know I had to use that word) issues that will be forever debated! Is it normal? Should we do it? If you are in a relationship should you and your partner still masturbate? And does is really make you go blind?   I am an advocate and a supporter of the handy act. Not only is it a way to get in touch with your sexuality and explore what your body is capable of but it also has a long list of health benefits, such as reliving pain and stress.   I have been told before that young baby boys are capable of having erections in the womb however an extract from a book I have been reading. “ The Clitoral Truth” by Rebecca Chalker took this concept of foetal sexuality to a new level. We struggle to think of children, especially…

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