Feb
14

2012
Did You Forget About Valentine's Day?

This article was inspired by my local deli. Apparently last year on Valentine’s Day, a man stormed in and asked for a chocolate decoration that had been hanging up in the shop for weeks to be cut down so he could give it to his girlfriend. How romantic?   If you are one of those poor schmucks that forgot to get the obligatory red roses and chocolates or feel your present is just not good enough – here are five last minute tips to redeem yourself. (And not have to cut down old objects hanging the window of shops).   1. Your time   I always think the most generous gift you can give someone is your time. It lets them know they are important enough in your life. If you forgot to make plans or buy a token of your love, be spontaneous, grab a picnic basket or make…

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Feb
13

2012
Why I Hate Valentine's Day

  Firstly I suppose saying  “I hate” is a bit harsh. More like I think this day of days can be a bit dangerous.  It’s dangerous if you are single and it’s dangerous if you are in a relationship. When you are a member of the single’s club, you are bombarded with cupids, hearts , TV commercials and blogs telling you what to get your loved one for Valentine’s Day. What loved one? As if being single for some was hard enough. This is the one day of the year (maybe besides Xmas and New Year) that being single sucks. Does this mean you sit at home with a bottle of wine drowning your sorrows pretending that you don’t care( Well not if you are like me and doing Febfast), or head out in a group to celebrate because you think that is the most respectable solution for the night….

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Feb
10

2012
Would You Abstain From Sex For A Teddy Bear?

First it was the ring, then it was the pledge, and then it was the ball with the big white dress, now a teddy bear! I think by now if you have read anything I’ve written, you know where I stand on the concept of brainwashing our youth into thinking sex before marriage is wrong, shameful or dirty. I once again would like to reiterate that if this is your choice (by choice I mean not influenced and pressured by religion, family, or culture) and you have an adequate education on the subject, I support that choice. But unfortunately, I feel that many young people are brainwashed into making this decision.   To make matters worse (and even worse for Roses Only and Hallmark) some young people this year will be replacing Valentine’s Day with Purity Day. Talk about spoiling the romance! (Although honestly, I’m not big on the romance…

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Feb
09

2012
The New Mating Call – Cock Shots!

This post is to all the men out there who have ever sent me a photo of their penis! News flash – it doesn’t work and really does nothing for me.  Sure it’s a great way when you are in a relationship or just starting dating to kick things up a notch, but when a random person or someone you hardly know sends that phallic picture, what is it really supposed to do?   I am going to be joining a campaign soon and I will have to give up a form of social networking. Due to my facebook and twitter addition (follow me on FB at Dr Nikki Goldstein or Twitter on @Dr_NikkiG) I was encouraged to start a blendr addiction so I had something to give up. You know that website that is like grinder, and if you don’t know what grindr is then you have been living…

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