Dec
26

2011
Too Many Questions

When you first begin seeing someone, everyone always has questions. In my personal and professional opinion I think there is too much focus on these questions and not enough of how two people make each other feel. Here are ten of the most common questions and why they shouldn’t matter:   1. What does he/she do? This is one of those things that people want to know first up. Are you dating a drug dealer or a high profile politician or a stripper? Apparently jobs define the person these days? Some jobs do but not all! Take my profession for example. Yes I am a Sexologist but that does not make me a sex worker ( not that there is anything wrong with sex work) or even mean I have a lot of sex. I would like to hope when people meet me that my job does not define who…

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Dec
23

2011
Why Do Pigs Have All The Fun?

I read a lot on holidays and sitting in Thailand reading yet another sex book, I come across the sentence ” lucky pigs, the clitoris is inside the vagina”. I’m not reading a book on bestiality, don’t worry. It’s a chapter in a book looking at if orgasm boosts fertility and for some reason the author has taken this question to pig farms in Denmark. Interestingly enough, Denmark’s National Committee for Pig Production showed that sexually stimulating a sow during artificial insemination leads to a 6% improvement in fertility. That’s a rather interesting fact and poor pig farmers but I’m more fascinated and somewhat jealous that that there is an animal with a clitoris placed where it should be!   If the clitoris in human females was inside the vagina the world would be a better place! Sex would be more enjoyable and empowering for women and in turn better…

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Dec
20

2011
Sticky

Masturbation! Most of us do it and if you don’t than you should! It is natural, normal and the first step to a great sex life. It is the way to work it all out. It is how to figure out what our bodies do. If you don’t know what gets you over the edge first than how can you tell someone else? You can’t get pregnant, or catch and STI and don’t need to get emotionally involved or hurt to do it. We don’t talk about masturbation enough. There is still such a stigma attached to it, that it is dirty, wrong or shameful. You will not go blind or go to hell nor will you go crazy if you do it. It relieves stress, pain, helps you get to sleep and helps you relax all in the stroke from a hand.   I was first sent the trailer…

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