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Wakey Wakey, It’s Danny Lakey | Better Anal Sex

There are not too many avenues where I get to speak about anal sex. It’s one of those subjects that feels so taboo but so many people have questions. Anal is not just a thing done in porn, a way men have sex or something women should do in order to be kinky. It’s something people choose to do when they want to explore their sexuality and explore back door fun and pleasure. Check out my chat with Danny Lakey and the advice I have on anal sex.

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How the Normalization of Anal Sex Has Shifted the Conversation About Consent

What a journey our attitudes towards anal sex have taken over the last few years. From Drake and the butt-eating conundrum, to scientific celebrations of big booties, to pegging on Broad City, to twerking, to Kim Kardashian’s epic shiny rump on the cover of Paper Magazine, it’s no question that all things ass-related have taken on a mainstream edge. Pop-culture acolytes proclaimed 2014 the “Year of the Booty,” which heralded a deluge of think pieces about the portrayal of butt sex on mainstream television shows like The Mindy Project and articles assessing the erotic potential of the anus. It’s now ascended to a cushy place in pop culture where it’s become much less shocking to talk about and engage in the act of anal sex. Data from PornHub reveals that from 2009 to 2015, search volume for anal sex videos skyrocketed by 120 percent. But it’s not just virtual fantasies that are increasing. People are also having anal sex more regularly. A 2017…

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Anal Pleasure Month

Recently we had National Masturbation Month, so why not keep this trend going and welcome Augusts’ Anal Pleasure Month! San Francisco based sex shop, Good Vibrations  has declared August, Anal Pleasure Month by putting together a timeline of the history of anal sex, along with a month of workshops and events in California. Well, for those of us down under who can not be in California at this time, we might just have to have anal sex instead.   Anal sex is still a taboo topic, making it high on the list of fantasies and acts performed in porn. But why should anal sex be any difference from other types of sex? It’s a personal choice and not everyone is in favour of the back door (and that’s perfectly normal and ok) but for those who are, why should it be considered more taboo, more naughty and more risky than…

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I received an email last week before my radio segment asking if I could talk about a Throuple. No it’s not an STI, but a term used to describe a relationship between three people, or in the context that we were talking about on the hot30 countdown, a three way long term relationship between men. This is what I love about my job, just when I think I have heard it all, something new pops up!   I studied non-monogmay for my basic research assignment for my Doctorate, so I was fully aware of the dynamics involved. I wasn’t too sure if this was something new, or just another case of old behaviour being relabelled to give a group more definition. There are so many sub categories under the label of non-mongomy, but identifying yourself as in a throuple  tells the world and the rest of society just a little…

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