15 Women on The Times They Were Slut-Shamed

So many women are slut-shamed. Even women who aren’t sexually active or sexually promiscuous in any way experience slut-shaming. “Slut shaming is so prevalent because it always has been,” sexologist and author of Single But Dating, Dr. Nikki Goldstein, tells Bustle. “For generation we have been shaming women for their sexuality and now with the media world it has become more acceptable in a way because the word “slut” nearly feels like a norm.” It’s not just when we’re children or teenagers that we experience slut-shaming. It happens throughout our lives. It doesn’t matter if we’re sleeping with lots of people, no one, if we’re single or married. We still come in contact with this behavior. “It impacts woman  because they might be acting on their own sexual desires or exploring their sense of self and are told by using that word that they are bad for doing so,” says Dr. Goldstein….

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Scientist Finds G-Spot (Can I Say, I Told You So?)

I was quite sure that the debate over the existence of the G-spot had been won. Probably from a more hands on experience though. I’m not sure about you, but I have been finding my G-spot (and enjoying it) for many years now. I was surprised to see the title of an article, “ Scientist finds G-spot. Then cuts it out and dissects it for the world to see.” My first thought was, well duh it exists and my second one was, “ I can’t wait to see that youtube video” (and my third was, what the hell did they do with the thing afterwards?).   The first person to declare the G-spot’s existence was of course Ernest Grafenberg, the man who it is named after. I only hope there is a sexual part of the body named after me one day – the N spot?   What makes me…

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Female Ejaculation

It’s very rare that I find videos or youtube clips that I feel have some accurate and useful information about sex. However when I do, I feel that I need to share these with you. Let’s face it, some times we just don’t want to read, who has the time?   This video is about female ejculation, a subject that I’m sure I will be writing about again. It’s that one thing ( other than those pricks that say the g-spot doesn’t exist) where many people still debate if it is myth of fact. Is it just something that porn stars can do? A bit like the porn party party trick? And is it really urine?. If men can do it ( of course with a slightly different substance) then why can’t women?   New flash: It’s normal, natural, possible and not pee!   Happy watching ( or even ejaculating),…

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Why Do Pigs Have All The Fun?

I read a lot on holidays and sitting in Thailand reading yet another sex book, I come across the sentence ” lucky pigs, the clitoris is inside the vagina”. I’m not reading a book on bestiality, don’t worry. It’s a chapter in a book looking at if orgasm boosts fertility and for some reason the author has taken this question to pig farms in Denmark. Interestingly enough, Denmark’s National Committee for Pig Production showed that sexually stimulating a sow during artificial insemination leads to a 6% improvement in fertility. That’s a rather interesting fact and poor pig farmers but I’m more fascinated and somewhat jealous that that there is an animal with a clitoris placed where it should be!   If the clitoris in human females was inside the vagina the world would be a better place! Sex would be more enjoyable and empowering for women and in turn better…

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