Mr Right

Apr
02

2013
Should We Be Finding A Husband At University?

As a modern Sexologist you might expect me to be up in arms about the recent letter Susan Patton has written to the Editor in the Daily Princetonian, pushing girls to find a husband while at University. But this is where many of you might have me wrong. In a strange way I agree with some (not all) of what she says. As a Sexologist, I have been taught to look at everything and everyone with an open mind before I make up my own conclusions, and this is exactly what I have done with this Jewish Mother’s advice.   However, the below paragraphed did anger me,   “Forget about having it all, or not having it all, leaning in or leaning out … Here’s what nobody is telling you: Find a husband on campus before you graduate. Yes, I went there.”   After only giving an interview today about…

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May
08

2012
Is The Catholic Church Ruining Our Fantasy Of Prince Charming?

It’s not a hidden fact that things are changing in the dating game. Women are becoming stronger and wanting more out of life than just children and babies. We now want it all, but we still want to find prince charming and want our happy ending.   I have a job that is intimidating to many men , but it does not still  take away the hope that one day prince charming will come on his white horse and rescue me. Well, maybe I’m not that clichéd anyway and maybe I don’ need to be rescued, but I do believe in true love, and that there is someone for everyone. I would rather wait and find the right one to spend my life with then settle and be miserable or worse, find myself in a heart breaking situation. The Catholic Church seems to disagree with me saying that, “ Women…

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Mar
22

2012
Are We In A Dating Crisis?

I don’t want to be too negative, but it has become apparent we are in the midst of a dating crisis. Now, I am only referring to Sydney here as it the place I call home and know very well (and know it’s meat market intimately).   Over the past year I have been fortunate enough to work with and befriend some amazing, fantastic, high powered, successful women in this town. Some of these women are married or engaged and have it all, but many of these women are single, strong with no time to date and no time to be mucked around. It’s the alpha female gone wrong! I love the new term ‘alpha female’, the woman that has it all. There is an abundance of women out there who have great jobs, an education, a social status, an income, a brain and a body, two feet to stand…

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Mar
05

2012
Waiting For Mr Right Can Be Wrong?

I don’t quite consider myself a bra burning feminist, but I do have my moments. One of these moments came on the weekend whilst reading The Daily Telegraph and coming across an article titled, “ Waiting For Mr Right Can Be Wrong”. What? I am one of those women who is waiting for Mr Right and has experienced many Mr Right Nows and Mr Wrongs, so seeing this over my morning coffee startled me.   The first sentence read, “Aussie women are being urged not to be too proud in their search for Mr Right, as new research reveals many are shocked to find it hard to conceive after 35. “    A woman’s body clock is her wost enemy. We are biologically wired to procreate, but also these days have been educated to want more than just babies and breast feeding. We are now in the era of the…

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