International Clitoris Awareness Week

I can’t belie I nearly missed this one. (Well some men have been missing it for years). May 6 – 12th is the first ever International Clitoris Awareness Week, an entire week to celebrate one of my favourite body parts. And don’t you think it’s not just good but great timing that it falls in Masturbation Month? ( And actually also over Mother’s Day – for those husbands who might have forgotten or dipped out in the present department).   But just like with Masturbation Month, CAW also has a more serious side (than reminding men we actually have one). The organisation behind this is Clitoraid, a Las Vegas based group usually devoted to helping victims of female genital mutilation. However, even though this organisation is somewhat serious, for one week they have decided to take a more fun and laid back approach to gain a bit of attention around…

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Why Men Fake It

Yesterday morning whilst watching Weekend Sunrise, my attention was grabbed by a segment on a book about why men fake it by Dr Abraham Morgentaler. It would come as no surprise that I am a fan of this content on TV and a big thanks to Sunrise for presenting such a great segment in an educational way. But Dr Morgentaler made some interesting points I wanted to highlight.   The question was raised, “ Can Men actually fake it and do they”. Yes! According to Dr Morgentaler’s research, men fake it to please women and try to be  “good and noble” ( if only all my x boyfriends tried to be good and noble in the bedroom).   So apparently we think they want to be selfish ( experience would back that up for many women). But in actual fact Dr Morgentaler insists that men want to be sexual providers…

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How Good Are Your Orgasms?

We live in a society where we are constantly trying to improve our sex lives, we want more, we want it longer, harder, faster, softer, more adventurous or more spontaneous or just all the time. It seems we get fed messages when it comes to our skills in the sack, we could do better! But how do we define “good sex”? Is it the length it goes for, how many orgasms you have or if you have any orgasm at all.   So when it also comes to orgasms, how can we tell if one is better than the other? I was reading a book, which gave descriptions from some people about their orgasms. Some I identified with, some I did not. On later research I discovered that there was not just one type of orgasm but many: mini orgasms, maxi orgasms, quickie orgasms, explosive orgasms, multiple orgasms, dry, non-ejaculatory…

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I walk into the lecture room and after greeting everyone with a big hug my attention is drawn to the object sitting up the front. A machine, with a base stand and a pink seat on top with a large object sticking out of it and a remote control, the DiscoStick(R) (or as I like to call it every women’s and man’s new best friend). An object able to give women orgasms through their clothing! The director of the school yells out to the front of the class pointing at me ‘ watch out for this one she is going to want to ride it’. Welcome back to sex school where everything you thought was normal and standard goes out the window the second you walk in and the first day was going to go off with a bang (well for some of my class mates it did).   What…

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