sex education

May
18

2020
Review: Tease & Please Pleasure Pack From We-Vibe And Womanizer

Gone are the days where a sex toys was just a pink bunny looking thing with fake pearls inside that rotated in ways I’m not sure are even necessary. With advances in technology, the adult pleasure industry has also benefited from this too. But just with other technological advances in our lives, sex toys can also become confusing. It’s no longer just an on/off button and placing it inside, which is why reviews like this are important. You need to know what to do with the product instead of staring at it blankly wondering what body part it fits into. This time, I want to explore for you the Tease and Please Pleasure Pack which consists of two products so you will have all your basis covered –  the Womanizer Premium and the We-vibe Sync. So, let’s start with the We-vibe Sync, the c-shaped looking object that you might have…

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May
08

2020
Things You Need to Know About Masturbation

May is Masturbation Month. So, in order to celebrate, I thought it might be useful to explore some of the things you need to know about this glorious act.   There is no right or wrong way We always want to follow a script or a norm when it comes to sex. It’s as though in order to belong and feel ok about what we are doing, we need to check in to see if others are doing it in a similar way too. Because most of us were not taught how to actually masturbate, there is still much confusion as to how this act should play out. Should there be an orgasm? Do you only stroke and touch genitals? Should it go for a particular amount of time? But there is no right or wrong way, it’s how you experience pleasure and how you want to do this. This…

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Oct
02

2019
Why I created a sex toy website

I’ve always enjoyed the world of adult pleasure products or what are still referred to sex toys. Before I was a sexologist, I was doing some freelance writing work and my first regular gig was with FHM magazine. One day I was asked to review a brand of sex toys. I met with the rep and soon had an apartment with every power point was occupied, charging products that were not household appliances. I never knew so many different variations existed. And that was just the start. Many people are fearful of sex toys. I’m not sure why. Maybe it’s because this world is often seen as being seedy. But I’ve always been baffled as to why it should be this way. Maybe it’s because some think that reaching out for these products means you are desperate to spice things up. That may be true for some, but I see…

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May
31

2019
These 5 words could be impacting your thoughts on sex

I don’t know if it’s a sexologist thing or just something I get hung up on, but I have become one of those people who analyse the language we use. I believe that we can change the way we and others view certain topics by changing the language we use surrounding them. When it comes to sex, there are many words that can be seen as not sex positive or even confusing. Let’s even take the word sex for example. We use it a lot, but it’s a word we can’t even define. What is sex? Is it penis in a vagina or is it fingers in a vagina or a penis in an anus? There are multiple different meanings for one word, and universally we cannot even agree on what it is. Here are a few others that I feel could be describing the act negatively or even posing…

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