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How the Normalization of Anal Sex Has Shifted the Conversation About Consent

What a journey our attitudes towards anal sex have taken over the last few years. From Drake and the butt-eating conundrum, to scientific celebrations of big booties, to pegging on Broad City, to twerking, to Kim Kardashian’s epic shiny rump on the cover of Paper Magazine, it’s no question that all things ass-related have taken on a mainstream edge. Pop-culture acolytes proclaimed 2014 the “Year of the Booty,” which heralded a deluge of think pieces about the portrayal of butt sex on mainstream television shows like The Mindy Project and articles assessing the erotic potential of the anus. It’s now ascended to a cushy place in pop culture where it’s become much less shocking to talk about and engage in the act of anal sex. Data from PornHub reveals that from 2009 to 2015, search volume for anal sex videos skyrocketed by 120 percent. But it’s not just virtual fantasies that are increasing. People are also having anal sex more regularly. A 2017…

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Adult Sex Ed Month

Well May was Masturbation Month but June also brings something with it besides winter. It’s Adult Sex Ed Month!  (Suggestion from the Sexologist: why not incorporate this into some new fantasies and “teach” each other a new thing or two in the bedroom).   There is a lot of misinformation out there and a lack of  information on much needed topics which is my reason to take part in Adult Sex Ed Month! I will never admit I know everything (human sexuality is an endless topic) and I will never admit to always being right ( we all have a different opinion and multiple opinions are needed to raise the important topics) so I love the idea of multiple websites coming together and making their information easily accessible under one hashtag #AdultSexEdMonth     I believe that education is the key to so many sexual issues. We can’t fight the…

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