Feb
07

2012

Why You Should Use A Vibrator

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Why You Should Use A Vibrator

It might come as no shock to you but I am fan of the vibrator, professionally and personally. Not only am I about to venture into the pleasure product world from a business point of view,  but also I support their use for all types of reasons. Vibrators can get a bad report from many (normally the boyfriends who fear them). There are concerns from many that a man will never be able to please a woman again and that it will spoil her. I have even heard one case of a boyfriend burning his girl’s vibe! (If that was my boyfriend I would have burnt him back!). We should not fear this vibration stick (ball, butterfly or fancy object) of pleasure but embrace it and here are a few reasons why. All pay attention now! (Especially that bloke who likes to burn vibrators).

 

First and foremost, it can give a girl an orgasm, (well duh) especially one that has never had an orgasm before. You see, we live in a society that focuses on the vagina as the primary point of pleasure and many (especially many alpha males) are under the impression that a few energetic thrusts of the pelvis will deliver that screaming O. Well do I have news for you! As many as 80% of women have clitoral orgasms and honey, your penis does not exactly hit that spot! Blame God for the design fault, but praise mankind for the answer – a vibrator! (And don’t worry you can use them together, he’s not totally left out of the loop or in this case your loop). Not only can you use a vibe together but there is also now couples vibrators that can be inserted into the female during intercourse and will hit the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. (This is why I love the advances in technology).

 

Next on the long list of pleasure – it might actually be good for you. I can hear all those religious fanatics who once thought masturbation was the devil’s act, screaming in fear! There are things in life that we enjoy doing but damage our health and wellbeing – smoking, drinking, sun tanning, but a play with your vibrating buddy is not one of them (unless you are smoking, tanning or drinking at the same time). It was found that women who use vibrators scored higher on the female sexual functioning index scale. If you want to be insistent or stop her vibrator use then deal with the possible consequences, a possible decrease or lack of sexual functioning maybe?

 

Now on the topic of health, I will continue but on a more serious side of things. I can share with you that I have had my own scare with cervical cancer at a young age and learnt it was one of the most preventable types of cancer if detected early. I was shocked at how many of my friends had never been to the doctor to check down there. So what is the link between cervical cancer and vibrators? It was also found that women who used vibrators were more likely to attend a gynecological exam in the past year or a genital self examination within the past month. So really it is true, a happy vagina is a healthy one.

 

And continuing on with the health topic! What do vibrators give us (If you use them right) – orgasms! Now orgasms relieve stress and tension and can be a pleasant way to start the day or a great remedy for a sleepless night. They can also help fight a nasty headache (just when you thought that was our best excuse). Now I want to know why they don’t advertise that on TV commercials instead of Panadol and sleeping tablets.

 

Last but not least, it is the way to find yourself and to own your sexuality! I encourage women to experiment with their bodies first before they engage in sexual activities with another person. If you don’t know how to give yourself the big O then how can you possibly tell him (or her, or them) how to do it? Using a vibrator is a great way to self-sexual discovery as well but also a fantastic way for single gals to still be sexual with themselves. Just because you don’t have a partner does not mean you miss out on all the fun. You also have a right to give yourself as much or little pleasure as you wish, as long as it’s want you really want!

 

Remember, it’s your body, your vulva and your vagina (if you don’t know the difference please contact me immediately) You can do what you want with it, use what you want to use and use a vibrator every night of the week if you wish! Your body, your choice, your vibrations.

 

And if I ever catch a man burning a vibrator there will be serious consequences.

 

Happy vibrating and hopefully masturbating,

 

Dr NikkiG

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