My partner really wants to try a threesome. What do i do?

My partner really wants to try a threesome. I feel like this is a stereotypical desire for a man and to be honest I have always been turned on about the idea of being with a woman, but not of him being with another woman. What do I do?

This is a common desire of a man, however, you need to know that fantasies might not be as good in reality but if the desire is strong it’s worth investigating why. You need to talk to your partner and find out if the desire is to have two woman or to watch you be with another woman and be involved (which doesn’t have to mean being with her).

If you are interested in exploring this fantasy further, you need to set clear boundaries. You might also want to start slow. You don’t need to jump into a full blown three-way straight away. If you are interested in being with another woman, then why not try this with your partner there? See how you are feeling and maybe then involve your partner the next time.

The problem with exploring fantasies is that you won’t know how you feel until you are there. This is why boundary setting and testing the waters are important.