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May
09

2018
Would you consider dating a Mum or Dad?

Dating a Mum and Dad’s with kids can have its issues, but it can also be such a fulfilling and rewarding relationship to be in. I recently appeared in a TV segment on The House Of Wellness talking about this very topic, but of course on TV you always feel like you run out of time and have more to say. So, I felt a blog post might be best. Children can be challenging when you are trying to start a relationship and it’s not easy to also balance your role in the mix. But it can make you stronger as a couple if you can communicate and work together as a team, which is a great skill to have in a relationship for the long term. It’s important that we start to look at dating people with kids, not as people with baggage but added extras. But we also…

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May
08

2018
Ask Dr Nikki – New Sexual Relationship

Hi Dr Nikki, So a bit of background info, I got married when I was 23 divorced at 26. I was engaged until she left me at the start of last year. So I met this fantastic woman in January, 34 no kids like myself and wants to find someone to have a future with. Went on our First date in March all went really well and agreed to see each other again.  We finally had our 2nd date but made it a weekend away for my birthday last weekend, the best weekend I have ever had!! At the moment we live 2.5 hours away from each other, I am moving back to that area later this year, I recently got a new job which is great, the worst part is I will be spending 2 months down in Sydney and she has told me that she will come down…

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May
02

2018
How Being A Sexologist Has Changed My Love Life

(Originally posted on Body and Soul) The one thing they don’t warn you when you sign up to study Sexology is how it will change your personal, sexual and love life. Besides a few new moves and super bedroom skills, I never stopped to think it would. When I began this journey, I considered myself open minded. I owned a vibrator so I thought I knew what this was all about. What I found was the beliefs I held around love, sex and relationships were not my own, but a result of the environment I had grown up in and the society that surrounded me. These had never been challenged or tested and I accepted them because they were the “norm”. To explore what you want out of love and life when you are told there is no such thing as normal (as we are taught studying Sexology and continue…

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May
01

2018
Ask Dr Nikki – In a relationship and addicted to dating apps

Hi Dr Nikki, I’m interested to hear your thoughts on addiction to dating sites? My partner of a few years just can’t seem to stay off them! He’s never met anyone or physically had an affair whilst we have been together, but seems unable to stay off them. He can’t even explain why he does it as we have a generally happy relationship and a great sex life. He was on and off these sites and actively dating on them for 5 years before we met, but never managed more than 3 months with any one person. We met online and I’m the longest relationship he has had (2 years). I feel like maybe he’s either waiting for it to end because that seems to be his experience with online dating or he’s just addicted to the thrill of the new. On the plus side, he is now seeking help…

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