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Being Single Is a Choice, So Stop With the Guilt Trip

As Gretchen Weiners from Mean Girls would probably say: “Oh my god, you can’t just ask people why they’re single.” The question is intrusive, personal, and, above all, none of your damn business. But for some reason, so many people feel the need to ask anyway, in which case, you can simply answer with: “I choose to be.” I asked sexologist Dr. Nikki Goldstein, author of Single But Dating: A Field Guide to Dating in the Digital Age, what the best response to that question is, and she dished out those four words without skipping a beat. Being single is a choice, plain and simple. In fact, you don’t even need to give family, strangers, or any other priers the luxury of an explanation. “It’s one of those offensive questions,” Nikki said. “You don’t even have to answer that if you don’t want to; it’s like saying, ‘Why is the…

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